ZERO YOUR MIND! DON’T TRY TO CHANGE HIM!

While I was single, only three brothers proposed to me or ever told me they have received from God that I will be their wife. Although they showed up at different times. And God guided me in choosing the right person out of them.But I can tell you I have lots of toasters and admirers who want to play. From neighbours, to friends, to class mate, to strangers, to church members. Those are uncountable! A player want to play sex and nothing else. Want to try out your body meant for the Lord not for filthy sex. That you meet at the fellowship or church does not mean he is saved! What does the bible says about this?Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness? 2 Corinthians:6:14.I don’t waste my time thinking or praying over a player or an unbeliever. It is always ‘a no go area ‘ I have zeroed my mind. The answer is usually a No sir, we are not equal. We can’t be yoked! Simple!Why are we not equal? We work and operate under different principles. I want to stay a virgin till marriage but an unbeliever may have a principle of tasting before marriage. Even if he tries to follow your rules it will break down and fail.Only the Spirit of God keeps a man in the fear of God, not the flesh.You must recognize or know a player when you see one. Just give it a little time, the fruits starts coming, for by their fruits, you will know them. As a believer don’t ever think you can change a guy for God. There is no level of spirituality you are, that you can do the work of the Holy Spirit. It is the Spirit of God that touches a heart and change it. Dragging a guy to church will not change him. Zero your mind today that you will never ever consider an unbeliever as an option. If God want you marry that guy, he will be a child of God before proposing to you. Many sincere Christian sisters fall in and out of fornication for this mistake, asking God for forgiveness each time, this is not true repentance. But true repentance is stopping, and the secret of stopping is disengaging yourself from such an unholy relationship, starting afresh with God, if not you may never overcome, and eventually regret ever doing that. I always say this: God will not invest so much in his child and now give him or her over to a dog to trample on . God is investing life into you, know that he is preparing you for another child of his who he is also preparing for you. That is simply why you’ve got to wait. Not that he is keeping you waiting for nothing.Don’t go after the irrelevancy; wait on God to be relevant. I pray for a peculiar grace for anyone still finding it hard to brake away from such relationship for any reason in Jesus name. (Amen)©Evang Abisola Kemi LongeZero Your Mind! Dont Try to Change him!While I was single, only three brothers proposed to me or ever told me they have received from God that I will be their wife. Although they showed up at different times. And God guided me in choosing the right person out of them.But I can tell you I have lots of toasters and admirers who want to play. From neighbours, to friends, to class mate, to strangers, to church members. Those are uncountable! A player want to play sex and nothing else. Want to try out your body meant for the Lord not for filthy sex. That you meet at the fellowship or church does not mean he is saved! What does the bible says about this?Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness? 2 Corinthians:6:14I don’t waste my time thinking or praying over a player or an unbeliever. It is always ‘a no go area ‘ I have zeroed my mind. The answer is usually a No sir, we are not equal. We can’t be yoked! Simple!Why are we not equal? We work and operate under different principles. I want to stay a virgin till marriage but an unbeliever may have a principle of tasting before marriage. Even if he tries to follow your rules it will break down and fail.Only the Spirit of God keeps a man in the fear of God, not the flesh.You must recognize or know a player when you see one. Just give it a little time, the fruits starts coming, for by their fruits, you will know them. As a believer don’t ever think you can change a guy for God. There is no level of spirituality you are, that you can do the work of the Holy Spirit. It is the Spirit of God that touches a heart and change it. Dragging a guy to church will not change him. Zero your mind today that you will never ever consider an unbeliever as an option. If God want you marry that guy, he will be a child of God before proposing to you. Many sincere Christian sisters fall in and out of fornication for this mistake, asking God for forgiveness each time, this is not true repentance. But true repentance is stopping, and the secret of stopping is disengaging yourself from such an unholy relationship, starting afresh with God, if not you may never overcome, and eventually regret ever doing that. I always say this: God will not invest so much in his child and now give him or her over to a dog to trample on . God is investing life into you, know that he is preparing you for another child of his who he is also preparing for you. That is simply why you’ve got to wait. Not that he is keeping you waiting for nothing.Don’t go after the irrelevancy; wait on God to be relevant. I pray for a peculiar grace for anyone still finding it hard to brake away from such relationship for any reason in Jesus name. (Amen)©Evang Abisola Kemi Longe